🌸earthangellibby118🌸: AUTOGRAPH

1. What’s your full name (or nickname)?

LIBERTY/BERTE/ETHTY/LIBBY/LIVY/BETTE/BETH/BETCHAY/BERT/LIBERT/LI/BETTI/BETTY etc.,

2. When and where were you born?

January 18, 1980/Manila, Philippines

5. Are you an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between?

Obviously I am INTROVERT

3. Where do you live now?

United Kingdom

4. What is your zodiac sign?

CAPRICORN

6. What’s your favorite childhood memory?

I remember two memories vividly but not really my favorites. The first one is about a school project in our gardening class. I had two boy friends who were part of my group, and we had to plant lettuce. We somehow managed to cheat the system by making our seeds grow faster than the rest of our classmates. So, the boys came over to my house to help with the project, and my family thought they were my suitors! They even teased me about it, although my family always thought I was a tomboy coz I always wear jumpy clothes but I am really not, duhh!???😂 Anyway back to my story, I was surprised when the boys, with all their courage, asked my dad for permission to go find a horse farm and look for horse manure (we searched the whole town, 🙄) to use as a substitute for fertilizer. After we finally found some, we decided to sneak into the garden by jumping onto the high roofs at the back of the school. It was an adventurous experience, and I really loved planting seeds with those boys. It taught me a lot about creativity and made me appreciate the joy of gardening.

The second memory takes me back to 3rd grade. There was this smart boy sitting in front of me who constantly annoyed me. He’d tilt his head back and forth, giving me flirty looks and blowing kisses at me. I know it sounds cute now, but back then, it was just too much! It irritates me. So, when I noticed a hole in my desk that was just the right size for my sharp pencil, I decided, in a moment of sheer frustration, to gently stick the pencil into the hole. The next thing I knew, he was crying because the pencil had jabbed into the back of his head. Now, I know I was a little badass, but in my defense, he deserved it for being so annoying. Of course, I didn’t mean to hurt him—I just wanted him to stop! I felt really bad afterwards and ended up crying too, because I never intended for things to go that far. The next day, after speaking with the principal, he never bothered me again. And, we never spoke or looked at each other the same way again after that not until we met at our school reunion and confessed he still had a crush on me but he already got married. I said, that's alarming to know but I am glad you are happily married now.😅😁✌️

7. Do you have any siblings? Tell us about them.

  1. Anne Claire-Office Worker(Best in English/Sporty/Talented( Sing/Dance) Happy Go Lucky Attitude
  2. Alexander-I.T. Engineer/Boss/ He is Math,Algebra,Physics Genius/He has Artistic Mind
  3. Richelle-Housewife/Smart and Talented(Artistic/Dance)/ Beauty Queen in the Family
  4. Ma.(Maria) Josefa-Office Worker/Businesswoman/Genius since Birth/ Talented(sing/dance)
  5. Niño-Nurse but like a Doctor in the family/Businessman/Smart and Talented(Sing/Dance)
  6. Steven Leonard-I.T./Smart/Dancer/Commercial Model/Talent Artist
  7. Othaniel-Accountant/Auditor/Genius and Talented in Singing and Dancing
  8. Stepbrother Hernani-Sales Executive/Smart and Talented in Singing

8. What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned from your family?

The most important lesson I've learned from my family—especially my dad—is the power of giving and caring for others. My dad was one of the most selfless people I’ve ever known. He dedicated his life to helping those he loved, whether through his time, resources, or simply offering a listening ear. He built a foundation for others, poured everything into the people around him, and gave without hesitation. But over time, I saw how that same kindness was taken for granted. The people he helped became greedy, and those he trusted betrayed him. Ultimately, the legacy he worked so hard to build was taken from us.

When he passed away, we discovered that they had taken everything, without telling us. It was devastating to see how those he had loved and helped took advantage of his generosity. From that painful experience, I learned a hard but important lesson: While giving is a beautiful thing, it’s essential to protect your heart and your legacy. My dad often quoted Bible verses, reminding us that "You cannot take your wealth with you to the grave," as it says in 1 Timothy 6:7, "For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it." This truth resonated deeply with me.

Although his selflessness was admirable, it also took a toll. His generosity, though genuine, often went unreciprocated, and it was painful to watch how others exploited him. He always reminded us that material wealth wasn’t the ultimate goal in life, but his actions also taught me that the greatest gift is giving with discernment and wisdom. Giving is important, but knowing when to set boundaries, protect yourself, and recognize that not everyone deserves your love and trust is just as crucial.

As I reflect on my dad's legacy, I now understand that it’s not just about how much you give, but the intention behind it. He couldn’t control how others treated him, but he could control how he chose to give. That’s a lesson I carry with me every day. I still strive to give and bring hope to others, but I do so with intention, boundaries, and a deep respect for my own worth. After all, giving should come from a place of love, not obligation, and should never come at the cost of losing yourself or your peace.

9. Do you have any pets?

None for now.. but been wanting to pet a bird and fish.

10. What’s one event that shaped who you are today and why?

All my life, I’ve faced struggles that shaped me, but the event that truly defined me wasn’t just the injustice of being wrongfully jailed for a night by my ex-husband and his sister. It was the aftermath—the abandonment by those who should have stood by me. Even my own family, like my aunt on my mother’s side (who also lives here in the UK), chose to believe my ex-husband and his sister over me. That betrayal left me feeling more alone than ever before.

Growing up, I was bullied and laughed at, and just when I thought things couldn’t get worse, the people I trusted most turned their backs on me. But through all of this, I’ve learned to rely on myself. I’ve discovered that no matter how many people doubt you or want to see you fail, your worth is never defined by them. I’ve learned to stay strong and keep fighting, even when the world seems to conspire against me.

It hasn’t been easy—the pain of abuse, the loneliness, and the betrayal took their toll. But those experiences taught me resilience, self-reliance, and the importance of trusting in my own strength. Through it all, I’ve never truly been alone, because God has been with me every step of the way. My faith has kept me standing—brave and unbroken.

11. What do you think has been the hardest thing you’ve ever had to do?

Hmm.., Loving a wrong person can be one of the most emotionally draining experiences. It’s like your heart pulls you in one direction, while your mind knows it’s not the right path. You hold on because you hope things might change, but deep down, you know you need to let go to protect yourself. The hardest part is realizing that letting go is a form of self-love, even if it hurts. It can make you question your worth, your judgment, and if you’ll ever find the right person. But in the end, I believe that walking away from the wrong person is an act of courage, even though it’s one of the hardest things you’ll ever do.

12. What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?

One of the best pieces of advice I received, which comes from my dad, is to be humble and forgive people, even if they don’t seem to deserve it. It’s not about them—it’s about freeing yourself from the weight of anger or hurt. Keep sharing your love, even when it feels like it’s not being returned, because love is a force that doesn’t run out. The more you give, the more you grow.

13. If you could change one thing about your life, what would it be?

Nothing. It is my fate, but I believe that I can still create my own destiny. If there is time left between the present and the future, I have the power to shape it. I would embrace more of the unknown, take more risks, and trust that everything happens for a reason. Every experience—good or bad—shapes who we are. The future is something we can always work toward, so there’s always time to grow and evolve, right!? :D

 

14. Who has had the biggest influence on your life?

Daddy, Mommy and Grandma Lola Taba(Lola Rosita)

15. What do you think is the meaning of life?

The meaning of life, for me, is about finding purpose through love, growth, and connection, even in the midst of challenges. Life’s struggles often teach us the most about who we are and how we relate to others. A Bible verse that resonates with this idea is: "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope." — Jeremiah 29:11. It reminds us that even when life feels uncertain, there’s purpose and hope in God's plan for us.

16. What’s the biggest risk you’ve ever taken?

The biggest risk I’ve ever taken was when I decided to leave home to work with my best friend from far away place, hoping to support my family. However, I learned a hard lesson. My best friend's family betrayed me—they took my money for themselves, slandered me, and even caused a rift between me and my best friend. Eventually, I had to leave their home and was taken in by a neighbor's family, who, despite having very little, shared what they had with me. This family was struggling in extreme poverty, and their children, despite having disabilities, helped their parents by collecting scraps from the garbage to sell. It was during this time that I truly realized how much resilience and strength these people had, even in the face of poverty. They had nothing, yet they still found ways to survive and support each other. This experience taught me a lot about the value of hard work, humility, and the strength of the human spirit in times of hardship.

17. What’s your personal mantra or quote that keeps you motivated?

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”Philippians 4:13

18. How do you define success?

I would define success as living authentically and staying true to your values, while also growing and learning through life’s challenges. Success isn’t just about achieving goals or reaching a certain status—it’s about finding peace with where you are and how far you’ve come, despite the obstacles. It’s about the ability to adapt, to be resilient in the face of hardship, and to keep striving to be a better version of yourself, even when things don’t go as planned. Ultimately, success is measured not only by external achievements, but by inner fulfillment, the positive impact you have on others, and the lessons you take from every experience.

19. What has been your proudest accomplishment so far?

Knowing my Dad is proud of me.

20. How would you describe yourself in three words?

Strong, Creative and Kind.

21. What’s your biggest strength?

LOVE AND HONESTY

22. What’s your biggest weakness?

TRUST AND LOVE

25. Do you like routine, or do you prefer spontaneity?

It varies. I like having a routine for stability, but when it comes to spontaneity, I need to be informed first. I’m not a fan of surprises unless I know what’s involved. I prefer to have all the details before I jump into something unexpected.

23. What makes you happy?

Simple Things: Food, Laugh, and Love. 

24. How do you like to spend your free time?

I enjoy staying at home doing my hobbies (including cleaning my place), shopping, and traveling. I love exploring new places, even if it’s just somewhere my feet take me on a spontaneous adventure.

26. Are you a perfectionist?

I’d say I’m sort of a perfectionist, but it depends on the situation. In some areas of my life, I like things to be done well and with attention to detail, but I also know that perfection isn’t always realistic or necessary.

27. How do you deal with stress?

When I'm stressed, I focus on what I can control and make time to recharge. At work, I deal with stress by speaking my truth and expressing how I feel. I believe open communication helps clear up misunderstanding. Outside of work, I relax with hobbies or take breaks to reset.

28. Do you have any bad habits?

Nothing, but I do tend to stay up late sometimes, though it’s not very often.

29. What’s something people would be surprised to know about you?

But here’s something funny: my family doesn’t even know I was doing all these things. The only thing they really know about me is that I can sing! HAHAHA. Thats all the talent they know.hehehe

But honestly, there’s so much more I could share about myself—things that would definitely surprise people. If I wrote it all down, though, it might turn into a whole book series! HAHAHA.

 

30. Are you someone who speaks their mind, or do you hold things in?

I’m honestly bold and always speak my mind, especially if I sense a negative or bad aura from someone. However, if the person has a positive energy or a kind aura, I tend to hold back a little and choose my words more carefully.

31. Do you believe in second chances? Why or why not?

Yes, I believe in second chances because everyone makes mistakes, and people can change. However, I trust my intuition when deciding whether to give someone another chance. If I feel genuine growth or remorse, I’m open to it, but I’m cautious and listen to my instincts.

32. What’s your relationship status right now?

SINGLE

33. What is the most important quality you look for in a partner?

 honesty, loyalty, faithfulness, respect, and pure genuine heart

34. How do you know when you’re in love?

I know I’m in love when I feel a deep sense of connection and care for someone, beyond just attraction. The energy doesn’t lie—like a sudden spark that electrocutes you 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. But joking aside, it's when their happiness becomes as important as my own, and I’m willing to make sacrifices for their well-being. I also feel a sense of peace and trust with them, like we’re a team.

35. What’s your idea of a perfect date?

Peaceful walk under the stars or in nature—somewhere near water or surrounded by trees. I love being in a calm, quiet setting where we can enjoy each other’s company and take in the beauty of the world around us.

36. Have you ever had your heart broken? What did you learn from it?

37. Do you believe in soulmates or love at first sight?

BIG YES!!!

38. Do you prefer a public or private relationship?

I prefer a balance of both. I value privacy and the intimacy of a relationship, but I also believe in being open and supportive in public. It’s about finding a comfortable space where we can enjoy each other’s company privately, while also showing respect and affection in public when appropriate.

39. What’s your biggest fear when it comes to love?

Investing deeply in someone and not having that love be reciprocated or valued in the same way. I’m also afraid of losing trust or being betrayed, because trust is such an important foundation for me in any relationship.

40. How do you feel about long-distance relationships?

I think long-distance relationships can work if both people are committed and communicate openly. It can be challenging, especially without regular physical closeness, but I believe trust, mutual understanding, and emotional connection can make it work. It requires patience and effort, but if the foundation is strong, it can lead to growth in the relationship.

41. Are you someone who tends to fall fast, or do you take your time?

Depends on the vibes.

42. What’s your favorite hobby?

Nothing in particular

43. Do you enjoy any creative activities (e.g., writing, painting, crafting)?

YES

44. What book, movie, or TV show has had the most impact on your life?

Nothing in particular.

45. Do you play any instruments or have a talent you’re passionate about?

I play the banduria, a traditional Filipino instrument similar to a ukulele but with more strings. I first learned it in a musical group during intermediate school. Later, my tutor let me try the guitar, though I found it a bit challenging since my hands are shorter compared to my big brother, who’s very talented with any musical instruments. Still, I enjoy expressing myself through music.

46. What’s your favorite type of music or favorite band?

I don’t really have a specific favorite type of music or band—I enjoy almost all kinds! But there's one exception: anything that sounds like it's trying to destroy my eardrums. Trust me, I’ve been there—when my ex-husband played his drum with what I can only describe as 'devilish music'... I swear it felt like my ears were under attack! It's like music from another dimension, and not in a good way. LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

47. Do you like traveling? What’s your favorite travel destination?

Yes, I absolutely love traveling! It’s hard to pick a favorite destination because I believe that all of God’s creations are wonderfully and beautifully made. Every place has its own unique charm, from the natural landscapes to the culture, and I feel grateful to experience all of it. There’s beauty in every corner of the world!

48. What’s something you’ve always wanted to learn but haven’t yet?

Driving, I know a bit but not in UK.

49. Do you have a favorite sport or physical activity?

Walk 🤣

50. Do you prefer outdoor adventures or indoor activities?

BOTH

51. What’s one thing on your bucket list?

To be loved and happy until my last days.

52. Do you enjoy cooking? What’s your signature dish?

Yes, I do! I don’t have one specific signature dish, but I love cooking my favorites like Ginisang Kamatis, Sinigang, and Nilaga.

53. What are your communication style?

big time texter🤣

54. Do you enjoy collecting things? If so, what do you collect?

Garbage...Joke! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 but I do collect only things that can be recycled or repurposed.

55. What’s your favorite holiday or time of year?

Nothing. 😁

56. What’s your biggest fear in life?

The thought of not having the all people I care about around is something I try not to dwell on, but it’s a fear that stays with me because they mean everything to me.

57. Are you someone who takes risks, or do you prefer to play it safe?

I boldly takes risks all the time.

58. Do you believe in forgiveness? Why or why not?

Yes, I believe in forgiveness. Holding onto anger or resentment only weighs us down, and forgiveness allows for healing and moving forward. It’s not always easy, especially when you’ve been hurt deeply, but letting go of negative feelings gives us the freedom to find peace—both for ourselves and for the person we forgive.

59. How do you practice self-love and self-care?

I make sure to give myself space when I need it, whether that means resting, shopping, doing things that make me feel good, like cleaning or enjoying a hobby. I also remind myself to be kind to myself, especially when I make mistakes, and I try to focus on what I’ve accomplished rather than what I haven’t.

60. What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever given someone?

Hmm..I don't know but I think the best one was, is to trust themselves and their instincts. We often second-guess our own decisions, but deep down, we know what’s best for us. Trusting your own judgment and having confidence in your choices can make a huge difference in how you navigate life.

61. Do you believe that everything happens for a reason?

Yes. 'coz even when things don’t go as planned, I think they often lead us to the lessons we need to learn or push us toward where we’re meant to be. Life has a way of unfolding in unexpected ways, but I trust that each experience has its purpose, even if we don’t always see it right away.

62. Do you believe in fate, or do you think we create our own destiny?

I believe it’s a mix of both. I think certain things are meant to happen, like encounters that feel destined or turning points that feel beyond our control. But at the same time, we have the power to shape our own path through the choices we make. Ultimately, I think fate and free will work together to guide us toward where we’re meant to be.

63. What’s your spiritual or religious belief?

I believe in God as the highest power, and my spiritual beliefs center around faith, love, and the importance of treating others with kindness and respect. I draw strength from my faith in God, and it guides me through life’s challenges. I believe that we are all connected through a greater purpose, and living with compassion and integrity is key to fulfilling that purpose.

64. What do you think is the meaning of life?

I think the meaning of life is to live with purpose and to make a positive impact on others.

65. Do you believe in karma or the law of attraction?

Yes, I believe in karma, and I see it as part of God's judgment. I believe that the energy we put into the world—whether good or bad—comes back to us in some way. It's not just about attracting positive things into our lives, but also about being accountable for our actions. Ultimately, I believe that everything has a purpose, and God’s judgment plays a role in how things unfold.

66. If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be? 

Envy. Envy fuels hate, greed, and the abuse of power, creating division and suffering. If people could let go of jealousy and instead focus on gratitude and kindness, the world would be a much more peaceful and compassionate place.

67. What’s your opinion on money and wealth?

Hmm..they are just tools for living a life—important for providing security and opportunities, but not the ultimate measure of success or happiness. 

68. Do you think we create our own happiness, or is it something that happens to us?

Yes, it is a mindset and a choice, and it’s something we cultivate through gratitude, self-love, and finding meaning in our everyday lives.

69. What legacy do you hope to leave behind?

Love, kindness, gratitude and resilience.


Additional Questions:

If your past person asks you if you want to stay with him, would you stay? Why or why not?

It depends, to be honest. I might consider staying if the issues that caused the separation have been resolved, if both of us are genuinely willing to work together to build a healthier, stronger relationship, and if there is still love, trust, and respect between us.

As long as it feels right in my heart, why not, right!? My happiness, peace, and growth are the most important factors. If I feel that being with that person again will truly bring these things into my life, it might be worth considering. If not, it’s okay to walk away and focus on my future.

 

Any unforgettable memories?

There are many, but I’ll share two examples. One was when my grandma got Alzheimer’s. She forgot almost everyone, but she still remembered my nickname. She would always call me “Berte,” just like my dad does. It made me so happy, and my heart felt so full because, even though she couldn’t remember some of her own children or other family members, she still remembered me. I miss her...hmm....

Anyways the second one was when my best friend and I faced extreme bullying from our coworkers. But they bullied my best friend so much that I had to step in and tell them to stop. I warned them that if they didn’t, they’d have to face me. When they heard that, they decided to challenge me instead. Being the type who doesn’t back down, I accepted their challenge. My best friend tried to stop me, but I told her, “I’m doing this for you, so don’t worry. I can handle this alone, even if they gang up on me in groups of twelve or more later at lunchtime.”

So, when lunchtime came, I was the first to step outside the gate. One by one, as they came out, I greeted them with punches to the face. Each one went down. They even called in some relatives who were police officers, but I stood my ground and said, “Who made the challenge? I only gave them what they asked for. I was just defending my best friend because they bullied her every single day.”

My best friend tried to stop me again when one of them was about to fight back. I struck that person as well but stopped when my best friend began crying. Seeing her tears made me stop, and I ended up crying too. I just can’t stand seeing people who are defenseless being bullied.

That’s one of the things I remember, but over time, I’ve learned my lesson. Now, I choose to remain silent instead of resorting to confrontation. However, I still speak my truth and stand by it when needed, no matter what. Staying true to myself and my principles has always been important to me, and while I’ve grown wiser in how I handle conflicts, my commitment to justice and protecting those who can’t defend themselves remains the same.

I miss them both, and I find comfort knowing that they are both happy and resting now in heaven.

I hope you’ve enjoyed learning a bit more about me! 💖 If you have any fun or curious questions (about this or anything else!), feel free to ask using the form below.

I can’t wait to hear from you! 😊✨

Just always keep shining, keep loving, and keep sharing your light with the world. 🌟

Thank you all so much! 💜 May God bless us all! 🙏😇